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Personality is Your Greatest Asset Personality Beats Brains At school, Napoleon Bonaparte was at the bottom of his class. Yet he became master of Europe. Countries and monarchs fell before him. Men and women of all ages fell under his spell. Napoleon was super-charged with personality. It radiated from him in intense degree and was the secret of the terrific influence he had over those around him. And it is that particular power which shapes your life. When You Get Right Down To It Your life depends on these two things : 1. How You Behave To Others 2. How Others Behave To Your Don’t run away with the idea that only No. 1 is your affair, that you can’t help how other people behave to you. Nothing of the sort. How other people behave to you is very much affair. How people behave to you depends more on you than on them

He who treads softly travels farthest. Consider the tale of the Chongs and their burst water pipe. Mr. Chong Would Tread Loudly. Of course when Mr. Chong reached home after tiring day, it was annoying to find the bathroom pipe was still not repaired. He was furious. “Hasn’t that plumber been here near the place?” he demanded. “He promised to do the job yesterday, and fell down on it. He promised again for today, and he still hasn’t come. I’ll ring him up now, and tell him what I think of him”. But Mrs. Chong is Wiser “John” she said, as her husband commenced frantically to dial the phone’s number. “Do you want to get the pipe repaired; of do you want to tell the plumber what you think of him?” Mr. Chong stopped his dialing and ginned. “I expect you are right,” he said. “Your ring him up.” And She Trod Softly Hamzi, the plumber was suffering from overwork and a sense of guilt as far as the Chongs were concerned. “I can’t do impossibilities, Mrs. Chong. Half the people in town want me to...

Don’t Argue More time is wasted in argument than in any other form of human activity. Most arguments are about things that don’t matter. If the other fellow says that Dato' Siti Nurhaliza wore black dress on the Malaysian Music Award, and you happen to know that is was blue, why waste time in contradicting him? He won’t thank you. And what advantage do you get from putting him right? If you are going about the world putting people right, you will have more than a full-time job. A job, too, for which you will get no thanks. If you win an argument, that’s about the only thing you will win. You are quite likely to lose a friend. People don’t like to be proved wrong. And what difference does it make to you whether Dato' Siti Nurhaliza wore black of blue? Keep you energies for things which more worthwhile. And you will keep friends too. Don’t Criticize Other People What a temptation it is to criticize other people – when they are not there to hear it. And what a sign of a weak per...

Master the Art of Living How you behave to others and how others behave to you make up the Art of Living. Master the art of living, and you can call yourself M.A.L if you like. M.A’s can be found among the failures, but if you make yourself M.A.L you can rely on success coming your way. And to graduate, you must start by studying your PERSONALITY Don’t worry about your looks Good looks of course are an asset, but your personality means more to you. Napoleon Bonaparte was only five feet two inches in height, but his personality made him a giant. Good looks fade with the years But Personality Grows